Blogger Widgets Struggling Parents: January 2008

Thursday, January 31, 2008

Dead beat Dads

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I have 2 dead beat Dads, one is the dad to my oldest daughter Jill. He lives in the backyard of his parents house and the other is the Dad to my other 2 daughters, none in which pays child support and the one that is the Dad to my 2 youngest daughters still keeps in contact with them, lives with one of his sisters and cleans her house to stay there. You ask yourself how much are your kids worth, and my 2 youngest daughters child support is 600 a month if he'd pay it and the other is only 250 a month and I am only receiving 50 every other month from the the oldest Daughters Dad. What a joke. I would try and pay it if I was the one to pay it because my kids are worth more then 850 a month. But how do they get away with it? the system sucks !!!

This has been eating at me more and more and especially sense the Dad to my 2 youngest daughters came to town to borrow 1,000 from my daughter Alex when he hasn't even been paying any child support, but my daughter states that she couldn't say NO...it might hurt his feelings, but he has a gambling problem and thats is the main reason why we got a divorce, now what do you think he will do with the money? Gamble it? or do what he says he is going to do and start his own business? I am burning up inside but I can't say anything. I did tell him how much of a loser he is for borrowing money from her when she needed it to pay her own bills, she goes to college and works, has her own place and pays bills. GRRRRRRRRR!!!!!






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Wednesday, January 30, 2008

Long time away

If you read When Life Becomes a Book, you'll know how my weekend went. I wasn't able to blog for 4 days, and its explained in that blog.

I'm certainly living with my boyfriend Ted right now, and we've talked about moving my belongings into his house, although he said yes, it sounded like maybe he paused on that yes. I don't want to move everything into his house and find out he is uncomfortable about it.

Its weird moving into someones house, I've only done it one other time before this and half my furniture was taken by him because he wanted me to pay 500 a month, even know that I was his girlfriend and doing his laundry and cleaning his house. What a joke that was. I've always have that someone special move into my place. You have the power to do what you want when its your house, by you feel awkward if its theirs.

Anywho, he is setting more rules each day, we go to bed so early I feel I don't need that much sleep and wake up through the night and crochet but it bothers his sleep pattern. I don't know why he feels he needs so much sleep, we will get plenty of sleep when we die...



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Friday, January 25, 2008

Bragging Parent

My daughter Alexandra is 20 yrs old and a beautiful girl. I'm not just saying this because I am her mother...she calls herself Alex, and we call her Baly. Below are photos taken of her in the last 2 or 3 yrs...
Alex last year


Alex last year


Alex last year


Alex 3 years ago


Alex 3 years ago


This picture is one of my favorites and it was taken 3 years ago


Alex and her friend went to try on gowns last year, isn't she beautiful in pink?


Alex at work last year


Alex last year


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